Kurt Bell

A life of courage, joy and independence.

Becoming the man you want to be – Sons of Grizzly – LylesBrother

First email: “Hello Kurt, The email I sent about my dilemma was awhile back, and it’s in the past now. I kinda blew it with the girl at lunch, but I’m not too worried about it. I actually decided to take Victor’s advice, about picking the one I felt I had a better chance with and it has been going fairly well I guess. Homecoming is just around the corner and she wanted to go and well I’m sure you know that I’m a really big introvert and honestly I don’t like parties or school dances at all for that matter, yet I have never been to one so I can’t really say much. I asked her to homecoming recently yet truly I don’t really don’t want to go. I only asked her because I think she likes me and I want to make her happy. She seemed pretty happy that I asked her. The thing is she’s so different than I am, at least her social status is. I mean of course I want to try new things, but not like this. Will it compromise in the end? I do like her, it’s just that she’s different than me, and I feel like it won’t work out as expected. I know I’m young and I have a long time to go to actually settle with a woman, but I want to take and give back as much as I can, so that i’ll have a better understanding about relationships on a personal level. Do you think I did good by asking her, even though I honestly don’t want to go to a dance. Sincerely, a friend

P.S. Thank you for being a guidance to not only me, but to the world. You may not see it just yet, but with what you’ve been doing for the past 8 years has made a difference. You’re a great man, I truly aspire to have a persona such as yours.”

Second email: “Hi Kurt, I saw the response video and I understand a lot of what you’re saying. In fact it’s always been on my mind to leave a decade to myself to get everything together before I settle, yet I think it’s an experience that everyone should have at a young age even if it doesn’t always last. It’s good to have a bit of an understanding of bits and pieces at a young age, that way it can sit in your head and you’ll learn as you age. Thank you for making the video not only for me, but for the world. It definitely deserves a spot in every young man’s mind. Very good advice from a very good man.”


Welcome to the LylesBrother blog. My name is Kurt Bell and I am delighted that you have taken some time to share a little of life with me. If you are someone struggling to find your footing in life then please consider visiting our self-help and support website at http://sonsofgrizzly.com. I’m also available on social media if you have questions or just want to chat and say hi. All links are listed below. I look forward to meeting you on-line. Have a great day!

The Path of WildnessThe Path of Wildness is easy to find
The course of a stream
Leaves blown in the wind
A beast’s track through the brush
And the direction of our first inclination

The Path of Wildness is an answer and response to a prescribed way of life which may leave some individuals with a sense that their living is little more than a series of pre-determined, step-like episodes between birth and death. The stages of living between these events: childhood, adolescence, adulthood, parenthood and senior are themselves natural and in accord with the needs of the species and most individuals. Many find their satisfaction in living this course and to these individuals I have little or nothing to say. Others though long for something more; something innate, genetic and seemingly calling. Adventure and change can give a degree of satisfaction and relief yet even these may seem too tame. To those who feel drawn to something beyond the entertainment and stimulation of senses I offer a walk along The Path of Wildness. Don’t bother penciling the event in your schedule, preparing a pack with goodies and supplies or even inviting a friend along, for this experience is along the course of your first inclination and you must surely always go alone.

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